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If you want to know what a man's like, take a good look at how treats his inferiors, not his equal. - j. K Rowling.

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                  HOW YOU CAN DISCOVER YOUR TALENT
   WHAT DID YOU ENJOY DOING Note the activities you like to do, You can discover your talent from what you like to do most and enjoy to do it, now ask yourself want did I enjoy doing? This can be football, singing, dancing, or many others
   RECALL YOUR DREAM You can discover your talent when you recall your dream, what are dream when you are in childhood what did you plan to become in future, what are your dream when you in college, and what are your dream when you are now adult. These will help you recall all your dream.
  WHAT PROVOKED A REACTION IN YOU  Do you remember if you ever felt a quiver excitement when you looked on at someone else fulfilling a certain role in life? Do you want to be in their place? If so, write it down
   THINK OF YOUR DREAM You must think about your dream well, pay to your dream and attention to how strong your emotional reaction is to imagining yourself in variour roles. ask yourself if i choose this role when will you be in next a year, two, five, ten years.
    GROUP ALL TOGETHER You need to group all things together in a list of your real innate goals for life. ask your self which of my dream can I group together, which one is similar to one another?
    NAME THE GROUP You will name the group in different name, look into every group and name each one similar to the group
  SEARCH You need to search for people in that field to encourage you in your dream
   ASK OTHERS You need to ask others about your dream people like your family to give you advise but don't let them push you to what you did not like to do.
    PRAY You must pray before taking any step because ''with God all things are possible'' Pray to God to give you wisdom to discover your talent and choose the right one.
 


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THING YOU CAN DO TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY
   SHOW RESPECT You need to respect your husband because husband is the head of the family, give him his respect, always obey him in any aspect, These will make you husband happy.
   TAKE CARE OF HIM You must take care of our husband, make sure he watch his favorite TV show, prepare his favourite meal, take care of him in every aspect you know, do what he like most.
   TRUST You must trust your husband, don't snoop in his phone, check his email, or spy on him when he is out with his friends,
  SEND HIM SEXY TEXT When your husband is not around, You need to send him sexy text this will let him know that you are thinking about him, you must not do this everyday but once in a week and tell how you feel when he is not around.
  COOK FOR HIM This should be on top of the list because it is very important to cook for yiur husband, you must know how to cook good food for your husband not just food but good food, this will make him happy.
  PRAY FOR HIM You need to pray for your husband, pray for success and long life for you husband.
  UNDERSTAND You must understand your husband when he did not have money or lack of other things, don't expose your husband when he can not afford you need and the family as whole this will make him happy.
  SUPPORT You need to support your husband when he is down, when did not have money you will give him if you have, and other aspect support him, these will make him happy
  LOOK GOOD This is important, you must look sexy, how how to dress in the right way you must not dress roughly in the front of your husband this will make him like you more.
     RESPECT HIS RELATIVE You must respect his relative, don't disrespect them if you do so you husband will not like your likewise the relative will not like you too, so you love respect them.

   

   QUALITY OF A GOOD HUSBAND
  A good husband must to his wife, he must love the good quality of his wife and her flaws.
  A good husband always be there for his nwife when she need him even when it is not convenient for him.
  A good husband spends main time with his wife and he will not allow his work to deprive him from good spending time withn his wife.
  A good husband respect his wife and her relative and always considers her when making decision, whether decision.
  A good husband should not cheat on his wife.
  A good husband should also a good father to his kids.
  A good husband should be a good listener to every things his wife says.
  A good husband should be generous.
  A good husband should provide for the need of his wife.
  A good husband always meet the need of this family.
  A good husband should not kill the dream of his wife or her aspirations of his wife.
  A good husband should know how to make his wife happy.
  A good husband should not hit his wife nor abuse her.
  A good husband should ensure that he satisfies her wife in the bedroom, he should not neglect his wife's sexual needs
  A good husband should honour his wife in public.
       These are quality/ point that make a man to be a good husband and good father, The family of a good husband/father is peaceful because of his character, is good to be a good husband and good father too.


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        HOW YOU CAN DISCOVER YOUR TALENT
   WHAT DID YOU ENJOY DOING Note the activites you like to do, You can discover your talent from what you like to do most and enjoy to do it, now ask yourself want did I enjoy doing? This can be football, singing, dancing, or many others
   RECALL YOUR DREAM You can discover your talent when you recall your dream, what are dream when you are in childhood what did you plan to become in future, what are your dream when you in college, and what are your dream when you are now adult. These will help you recall all your dream.
  WHAT PROVOKED A REACTION IN YOU  Do you remember if you ever felt a quiver excitement when you looked on at someone else fulfilling a certain role in life? Do you want to be in their place? If so, write it down
   THINK OF YOUR DREAM You must think about your dream well, pay to your dream and attention to how strong your emotional reaction is to imagining yourself in variour roles. ask yourself if i choose this role when will you be in next a year, two, five, ten years.
    GROUP ALL TOGETHER You need to group all things together in a list of your real innate goals for life. ask your self which of my dream can I group together, which one is similar to one another?
    NAME THE GROUP You will name the group in different name, look into every group and name each one similar to the group
  SEARCH You need to search for people in that field to encourage you in your dream
   ASK OTHERS You need to ask others about your dream people like your family to give you advise but don't let them push you to what you did not like to do.
    PRAY You must pray before taking any step because ''with God all things are possible'' Pray to God to give you wisdom to discover your talent and choose the right one.
 

    HOW YOU CAN HELP PEOPLE
   THE ADVANTAGES OF HELPING OTHER'S
   1 It make you feel better about yourself.
   2 It improve the life of another.
   3 It make the world a better place, one little step at a time.
   4 It connect you with another person, at least a moment, if not for life.
   5 If that kindness is passed on it can multiply.
               HOW YOU CAN HELP OTHER'S
   1 DONATE SOMETHING'S YOU DID NOT USE if you have something you did not use dash it out, thing like cloths, phones,chairs, televisions, shoes, and so no, if you do this it will many people.
   2 MAKE A DONATION Make a donate like money to help other's to live.
   3 Redirect gift
   4 Teach other's
   5 Help to take action
   6 Help in solving other's problem
   7 Buy food for homeless person
   8 Help someone on the edge
   9 Give a message
  10 Show appreciaton to others
  11 Donate food
  12 Just be there for people
  13 Create a care a package
  14 Show some love, love other people like you love your self.
  15 Offer babysit
  16 Share your resources
  17 Being a band advocate
  18 Share your knowledge
                 HELPING OTHERS  QUOTES
     ''The purpose of life is not to be happy, it is to be useful, to be honour, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well''- Ralph Waldo Emerson
    ''No one is useless in the world who lightens the burdens of another''- Charles Dickens
     ''He has a right to criticize, who has a heart to help''- Abraham Lincoin
   ''It is literally true that you can succeed best and quickest by helping others to succeed'' - Napolean Hill
             CONCLUSION
  Is good to help others there is not point that a person can make that helping another person is not good, we have nothing to loose when helping others. Help others is good when help other it will make your feel better, you will be proud of it,
     when you help other do not announce it to another people. If you help others the person will not forget you for good thing you for he or she so is good to help others



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                                                LEADERSHIP
 Leadership is both a research area and a practical skill encompassing the ability of an individual or organization to lead or guide other individuals, teams, or entire organizations.it is also the idea of transformational leader, an effective leader is a person who creates an inspiring vision of the future, motivates and inspires people to engage with that vision. Leader is someone who control a group of people or organization to achieve common goal.
      Leader can be found in any where at the country
   QUALITIES OF A GOOD LEADER
  Confident good leader will not afraid of being challenged good leader must have confidence to control is people or organization,trust and confidence in leadership is a reliable indicator of employee satisfaction.
   Fair fairness is what people want in good leader, a good leader did not have to favourites in the team, group, or organization they reward the result not partiality, they must fair in everything they do.
   Diligent good leader must work hard to achieve his or her goal to perserve in conviction compassion, and courage. good leader need diligence.
   Honest is about being trustful, building trust,have integrity good leader must be able to communicate the true among his or her follwer in every ways.
   COMMUNICATION Good leader must communicate to his or her follower and ready to listen to them take their advise for you. communication gives them a sense of belonging which enhances productivity.
    RESPONSIVE A good leader must responsive to the need of those people they lead, good leader should listen to the team or organization good leader must valued the organization or team.
   IMPARTIAL A good leader must  be impartial to the gis or her follower, they must recongnise their biases, predisposition, and prejudices.
   COURAGE A good leader must be courageous, he or she must ready to risks, a good leader must ready to take dangerous step to achieve is goals he or she must not be afraid of anything that happen, ready to slove big problem, 
   APPRECIATION A good leader mus ready to appreciate is organization or team because good things can not be done alone, success is only achieve with the help of others
     CO-OPERATION co-operation is important a good leader must co-operate with his or her team, organization or follwers and the team. or organization must also co-opera with their leader. 
       CONCLUSION
       A  good leader must always listen to his or her team for advise and make use of it. good leader must try to influence a group of people toward the achievement of a goal, Even Richard Branson said''communication  is the most important skill any leader can possess'' a good  leader must ready to take advise of his or her team, leader are committed to and personally involved in improving an organization performance.they should create and maintain the internal and external environment in which people can become fully involved in achieving their team's objectives            busayoadejayan.com.ng

    HOW TO SOLVE A PROBLEM
    1 CLEAR THE PROBLEM Ask your self what exactly is the poroblem your are facing? what is the source of the problem? what is the way out of the problem?, wrie out this question clearly in dtails.
    2 CLEAR THE IDEAL OF SOLUTION TO THE PROBLEM Ask your self what exactly is the way out of the problem? what are the materials needed to provide the solution? which materials should you use for the solution to the problem? think of these.
    3 PICK THE BEST SOLUTION Pick the best solution by comparing your solutions againdt your problem, what is the best thing to do at this time under the circumstance.
    4 SHARE YOUR PROBLEM WITH OTHER'S You can share your problem with the elder, or family member, they will give you advise of what to do,
    5 MEASURE YOUR SOLUTION Measure your solution, how did you know that the solution you think it can solve your problem can solve it indeed, look upto the future of our decision well
    6 TAKE ACTION Take action and solve your problem you can solve any problem, overcome any obstacle or achieve any goal that you can set for yourself by using your wonderful creative mind and then take action consistently and persistently until you attain your objective.
    7 CHANGE YOUR LANGUAGE You must change your language about the problem from negative to positive, instead of using word problem use the word situation, challnge or an opportunity.if you do these you will be  getting the ideals to solution.
    8 PREPARE perpare for the worst possible outcome and how to overcome the problem ask your self what is the worst possible thing that can happen if this decision did not work well?
    9  TAKE COMPLETE SOLUTION You must make sure you take complete solution, accept complete responsibility for implemeting the decision
    10 SET A TIME Set a time the problem will be over or solved with deadline and sub-deadline you will know immediately if you are on the right track or wrong track, because a decision without a deadline is a meaningless matter.


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              WHAT IS  LOVE
     Love is a variety of different emotional and mental states, positively experienced and typically strongly that rangers from deepest interpersonal affection to simple pleasure.love is a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person, attraction that includes sexual desire, the strong affection felt by people who have a romantic relationship, a person you love in romantic way.
     SOME LOVE QUOTES
    You know you are in love when you can not fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dream.
    a friend is someone who know all about you and still loves you.
    the opposite of love is not hate, it  is indifference, The opposite of art is not ugliness, it is indifference, the opposite of faith is not heresy, it is indifference and the opposite of life is not death, it is indifference.
    it is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages.
    being deeply loved by someone give you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
            TYPE OF LOVE
  FAMILIAR LOVE OR STORGE this kind of love is a nature form of affection that often flows between children for their parentn andn parent to their children, this love is found between children at childhood friendship, this love is very powerful.
  AFFECTIONAL OR PHILA LOVE Phila love is an affectional love that that is found among friend s who have endure hard time together, ''phila is a dispassionate virtuous love'' that is free from the intensity of sexual attraction, this love is involved the feelings of loyality among friends camaraderie among team mate.
   PLAYFUL OR LUDUS   this love is playful love found among young lovers, ludus is the feeling we have when we go through the early stage of failing in love with someone,
    PRAGMA LOVE OR ENDURANCE love this kind of love is found in friendship of long period of time, or married couple who have been living together for long period of time, this kind of love is not easy to find, it is the love between people who have learned to make compromises, have demostrated patience and tolerance to make the relationship work.
   PHILAUTIA OR SELF LOVE Before will care for others will must love our self first,learn to care for ourself, the self love is self compassion which means the deep understanding that only once you have the strength to love yourself and feel comfortable in your own mind, it is importanto love ourself first before loving other's.
AGAPE OR SELFLESS LOVE  love this kind love is unconditional love, bigger than ourselves, a boundless compassion, an infinite empathy.it is the purest form of love that is free from desires and expectations, and loves regardless of the flaws and shortcomings of others. it also the love of culture, society, religion.
     QUALITY  GOOD LOVE OR TRUE LOVE
  1 MUTUAL RESPECT respect for each other is the most important factor to  sustain true love. it comes from giving each other enough space for personal growth and never crossing line, no matter what.
   2 TRUST   In good love there must be trust because it is important, needless to say, trust is the most basic foundation of true love, true love makes us feel vulnerable without being fearful or defensive. while it is crucial to trust the person with whom we are in love.
   3 GROWTH   Good love or true always favour spiritual or personal growth. true love promote natural growth that not only fills life with happiness and freedom, but also helps with professional success.
   4 COMMUNICATION True love should not lack of communication, many people said that they struggle to express their feeling to their loved one's when words have meaning and are said with good intentions, it is never difficult to let them out.  communication is very important in true love to make it to develop well
   5  FEARLESSNESS Fear makes love complicated and hopeless. when we are in true love, we know what to do. Fear can not make love come true because fear mind can not express it self. so fear is not good in true love.
   6 TEAMWORK In true love there must be teamwork because it help it lead to co-operation and success, knowing when to step up and take control and when to back off and trust your partner to take over is teamwork, when two people are together in love, they combine their strengths and work like team.
   7 EFFORTLESS AND ETERNAL ATTRACTION   We never have to try to go out of our way to please the person, there is no need to force and convince  anything on each other. when you truly in love with someone, we discover moments of love and affection in the most normal of situations, everything seem fun and effortless just the way it is.
   True love doesn't have a happy end because true love never end.
 
              CONCLUSION
   Love is important in every where in the society, country, in any relationship love can make you do things that you never through possible.love conquers all,love turn winter to summer, sex and love are two different things you don't always have to sex to love some one and there for them, love is like a hourglass with the heart filling up as the brain empties. love is not a decision, it is a feeling if you could decide who to love, then, life would be much simpler but than less magical.love is hard and always be, but remember somebody loves you and that is one is your lover.love mean's to see someone with closed eyes, to miss someone in crowd, to find someone in every through, to live for someone, love someone, but sure that someone is only one.

               POVERTY
Poverty  is a multifaceted concept which may include social, economic, and political element, it is the complete lack of the means necessary to meet basic personal needs such as food, clothing and shelter.
 poverty is the scarcity or the lack of a certain amount of material possession or money,
     CAUSES OF POVERTY
  LACK OF PLANNING  many old age people did not plan when they are young and working well, so this can lead to poverty when he or her is old. beside the physical weakness poverty hurt them a lot.now days it is quite easy to avoid by opting for old age pension plans, making sufficient savings.
   NO FAMILY SUPPORT many people did not care for their family when they are old. proper family support help one take up education and also right decision ion business or investment. If the family help them self in one there will be no room for poverty in the family ''because united we stand divided we fall''
   VIOLENCE/RIOT OR PROTESTS this can lead to poverty because if riot or war from another state or country to a particular state, this can lead to loss of property and lives of loves one, so after riot the state or country to poverty and they will begin to suffer lack of food, house, and many things
   PERSONAL REASON This also a reason that cause poverty person reason like bad friend can teach someone in bad ways that can lead to poverty, scammers and robber can scam someone which can make a rich man or woman to be poor.these can lead to poverty.
   SICKNESS OR Sick can lead rich man or woman to poverty when sickness comes they can spend all there money on sickness and they become poor and started suffering.
   DISABILITY can lead to poverty if a person is disable maybe the person have accident that lead to cutting of leg or hand this can not allow the person to work and feed his or her self or family so he or her will be suffering.
     LACK OF EDUCATION Education is one in which help people overcome poverty because many nations provide scholarship to people so this help people to overcome poverty.
     GOVERNMENT Government can cause poverty if the leaders are not responsible, nor performing their duties and obligation like, unemployment in the state or care for the citizens these can will lead to poverty. so the government should perform their duties and obligation well and provide for the citizen right and care for them, the government can lead this citizen from poverty, and make them become rich.
              CONCLUSION
Poverty is not good in our community because it lead the citizen to robbery and scammers  so the government provide good road, job opportunity, water, food, hosing, this are the benefit of citizen in their country. this will no give room for poverty in the state.
 we will should try to avoid the causes of poverty because poverty is not good for human being no person want to suffer.

•          FAMILY     

  What is a family?
  A family simply means a group of people related by blood, According to wikipedia family is also means a group of people affiliated either by consanguinity, affinity, or co-residence.
   A family consist three people, which is the father, the mother, and the children. family is social unit of two or more person related marriage or adoption and having a shared commitment to the mutual relationship. family.
                           GUIDELINES FOR FAMILY
    WIVES submit to your husband's leadership, respect your husband.
    HUSBANDS Love your wife as yourself, consider her need.
    CHILDREN Obey the instruction of your parents, respect your parents.
    PARENTS Train and discipline your children in God's way, don not deliberately irritate antagonize your children.
                            TYPE OF FAMILY 
         There are two types of family
    NUCLEAR FAMILY this family consist the father, the mother, and their children. these types of family usually live in the roof do everything together, father is the head of this type of family. this family is long held in esteem by society as being the ideal in which to raise children.
    EXTENDED FAMILY This types of family is a large family which consist, the grandfather, grandmother,father,mother uncle, sister, brother,  and other's, this is the largest family, they usually live in a big home,
        SINGLE PARENT FAMILY 
    This consist one parent, the only parent is the one that will raise the children,often a single parent family usually be a mother and her children, there are single father family but single mother is more popular that single father,this kind of family usually face more problem that others because the both parent are not present the single mother or father do all things alone no helper, no partner, this family usually suffer more that other type of family they face more problem like, lack of money lack of discipline, lack of obedience, lack of manner, lack of education but most most time the relative usually help them in perform some of the duties or most of it.
      CHILDLESS FAMILY
   Childless family is a family where a couple are childless they did not give give birth to any child due to some reason this kind of family usually consist of the husband and wife, most time they allow the relative to lives with them. most of this family member usually face their work they because they did not have children at home so they work more than other parent
            QUALITY OF GOOD FAMILY 
   A good family love each other.
   A good help one another financially.
   A good protect and guide.
   A good family provide to her need.
   A good family teach their children in the way of God.
   A good family educate her member.
                  FUNCTION OF FAMILY
    There many function of family, it is uncountable but will shall talk about some of them.
  1  Protection it is important and necessary for family to protect one another from any form of danger or attack.
  2  Provision A good family must provide for her need like provision of food, provision of home for common living for all her member, in a home all member of family live together, because family and home have no substitute. all family need a home to live happily with comfort, peace and protection
    3  Education A good family must provide basic education for her member to learn how to read and write, mother has to be the first teacher and the best teacher of her children, there are many education function of family by taken children to primary, college, and university.
    4  Health   It is the function of the family to take care of her member when they are sick, or they become aged and old person should be taken to hospital, and providing good and nutritive food for her member.
    5 Religion  religion is more important in the family because family is the center of all religion activities, because children learn more value from their parent, all family must offer their prayer together and observe different religion rites,teach them in the way of God.
    6 Culture Every parent must learn their children their culture because when children learn and acquire culture from the family and transmit it to next generations,culture means is way of life the way the family lives their life from the days of their forefather.
     7 Love: Love is important in the family, the family member must like them self, love one another,care for them self. good family must not love one and hate others, good family should do every in love, because family love is important and family love is stronger than any kind of love because they are related my blood, love is important in the family because it is love that can move the family forward.
            CONCLUSION
   A state begin with a family, family is very important because when other people run from you when you are in problem your family member will surely stand by you, because you are related by blood, so do not care most about your friends or other people that your family, love is important in every family because, (there is beauty all around when there is love at home) love is important every even in a country love bring unity, peace, and development, a good family help the offspring to be successful in life because love bring success. it good to build a good family it help children.

                       WHO IS  A FRIEND
Who is a friend?  According to wikipedia Friend is a relationship of mutual affection between people. friendship is a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an association.
  it can also be define as some one you relate with physically,socially, and emotionally and make you happy and help you when you in problem,because true friend will never run or leave you when you are in problem
A friend is some who will never give up on you, Friend is person who is aware of how retarded you are ans still manage to be seen in public with you, people who cry for you when one of your special items is disappear.people who make you laugh till you pee your pants. Friend is someone you love and loves you, someone you respect and respect you also, someone whom you trust and who trust you. A friend is honest and make you want to be honest too, A friend is loyal.
A friend is someone who sacrifice their life and happiness for you. A friend is someone who will come with you have to do boring things like watch bad recitals, go to stuffy parties, or wait in boring lobbies. You don't even think about who's talking or who's listening in a conversation with friend.
                               WHAT MAKE A GOOD FRIEND?
 There are many ways to Make good friend having good friend that love you and support you in every aspect of life. This tip can help you make a good friend.
Research has show that the better the quality of your relationships, the more likely you are happy.You must be a great friend to someone and have friend assist your back is good for your well being, but what exactly, make a good friend.
             QUALITY OF A GOOD FRIEND
Dale Carnegie, author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, said, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get people interested in you.” As we listen to others and show an interest in what is important to them, we begin to truly love and understand them. Every person has an invisible sign around his or her neck that reads, “I want to feel important.” Everyone has something to offer this world. We need to search for it, find it, and bring it to the surface.
1   A good friend will stay with you, when you has problem.
2   A good friend is loyal.
3  A good friend is honesty.
4  A good friend make you happy .
5  A good friend always help each other.
6   Encourage each other.
7   Inspiring each other.
8   Forgive each other.
9   Good friend share ideas with one another.
10   Handing out together.
                                              CONCLUSION    
           It good to have a friend in our life because they help us in  achieve our goals.
  So my advice to with you want to choose a friend make sure you choose the right friend that can help you in life, please don't choose bad friend because bad friend may lead you in failure in life, Take your time to choose a good friend because they will help you to achieve great success.